Parallel & Proverbs
A weekly literary miscellany

Family is the theme proverbs return to most often. The closer the relation, the harder the truth — and the harder the truth, the more useful a proverb is for naming it without quite saying it.

The Arabic al-qird fi ‘ayn ummih ghazaal — “in its mother’s eye, the monkey is a gazelle” — names the bias of love without scolding it. The Russian yablochko ot yabloni nedaleko padayet — “the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree” — quietly insists you’ll find your parents in yourself eventually. Different languages, different shrugs of recognition. Same kitchen.

Where this theme shows up